No matter what challenge you are going through in your life, remember you can always come back to the center point, which is your heart. And connect to the source within you. So how can you do that?

Whenever you are having a challenging perspective or a difficult situation, simply ask yourself – How can I look at a different way that will make me feel better?

Now remember, there is no positive or negative event. It is only your meaning that makes it a positive or a negative experience. Some people can be happy even when natural disasters are happening because that is how their positive belief system works. And there is nothing wrong with that because they can see the positive in the negative.

Similarly, you can also see the negative in all positive situations and that would be depressing, isn’t it? So why go there? Let’s look at the positive in negative situations. So, whatever challenge that you are facing, ask yourself, “What will make me grateful about this situation in the future that I cannot perceive right now, that I’m not able to see right now, experience right now?“

You are the creator of your reality and you decide how your reality is going to be. So why not make it a positive one? Do not discount the negatives. You may see the negativity and acknowledge the negativity. Say- I accept the negative learnings that I’m getting from this situation and also acknowledge that there are positive learnings and positive happenings from the situations as well.

You can use that negative event to create something positive in your life only when you see everything as an opportunity to take you further toward your goal. So even when things are not going as per your plan, tell yourself that – “I am the creator of my reality, and I’m the one who gives it the meaning, and whatever meaning I say I give is what is true. So what positive meaning can I give to this event, which can allow me to move towards the goal that I was looking for, and see what comes up?“

In this manner, if you keep redefining your perspective, no matter what you are going through, you will start noticing that you suddenly don’t depend on or need anything or anybody else to help you through any situation because you become your own manifester, you become your own guide, you become your own friend, where you’re taking care of your emotions in that manner.

This excerpt was taken from the channeling session: Meet Aliens Face-to-Face