This is an excerpt from a private channeling between my client and Archangel Michael. 

Permission has been taken to keep her identity anonymous in sharing this transcript of the conversation. The idea of sharing it is to help you process the betrayal if you have faced anything similar in a way that serves you positively.

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Her: What was the point of me being cheated on? I’ve never been cheated or ghosted in the past. What was the point of this? 

I didn’t deserve any of this.

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Archangel Michael: As you’ve already know, this was not your fault. And we understand that it can feel like a betrayal. 

However, this is a reflection of the person who cheated on you. And in that sense, you were saved – saved from being in a relationship that would have harmed you in the long run. 

You wouldn’t have known what he is capable of if he didn’t show his true colours right up front. You would have spent unnecessary emotional and mental bandwidth on a person who’s incapable of being loyal to you. 

So this was not the right person for you and finding out very early on has helped you move on from this relationship, instead of expecting him to change. 

Because people like this don’t change unless they do therapy or any kind of inner work to understand what led them to this behaviour. 

You cannot take care of other people’s mental health unless they decide it is important for them to change. 

People are responsible for their own behaviours, no matter what lies they have to say, no matter what excuses they have to give. 

It is truly that person’s responsibility to realise what led them to this behaviour and whether it is going to serve them positively in the long run or not. It was a way of saving yourself from future hurt and disappointments; for what hurts now will end fast because you are in no way responsible in creating any circumstances that they used as a justification for cheating on you. That was them and all about them. 

You might feel unworthy of their love because of this. But truly, the reality is that they were unworthy of your love and devotion. This is a call to recognise your own self-worth irrespective of whether others value you or not. It is time to look into yourself, love yourself and value yourself enough to know that you deserve loyalty. 

And that you deserve wholesome love, that nourishes you and cherishes you. Not something like this. 

Do not assume that you are a vibrational match to such people just because you didn’t do enough inner work. This incident allows you to let go of whatever remaining insecurities you have in yourself about loyalty. In that sense, this event served you positively because you did get rid of those insecurities when you discovered the news. 

So it has served its purpose because now you are a much more mature and wiser you, whose worth is not dependent on a man’s love or rejection. 

Now you know you are worthy of love and respect and devotion and loyalty, just as much as you are capable of giving the same. So treat it as a catalyst to help you uncover whatever inner work was left to be done and that’s it. 

It’s time to move on from this perspective of betrayal, and either forgiving yourself or forgiving the other person and moving on. For they don’t know any better, but you do. 

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Her: Thank you.